2025 is coming to an end, and looking at the different “year in review” posts from friends and family made me think of my own. The only things that come to mind are tiredness, frustrations, and the constant quest to find myself.
The routine trap
I have always been active on social media. Over time, my online activity went downhill, and I was very aware of it, but the biggest change was in 2025, where there were less than 10 posts from January to November. And it all happened unconsciously. I only realised that it was the case when a school friend sent me a message on Instagram to ask if I’m okay because I’m not posting content as much as I used to. It then struck me that I got into life’s routine and somehow lost myself in the process.
Personal and professional life balance
Since the birth of my second son in May 2024, who came six weeks premature, it has been a challenge for me to get back to my previous self. He needed more of my time, and the nights were never uninterrupted. Then came 2025, and professionally, I decided to take up a new position for the experience it offered and, to try something new. Even though it was a good opportunity, it had its own weight on my mental health and balancing personal and professional life became another issue. I am still grateful for this experience, which made me realise my worth and expectations towards an employer and colleagues: The most fundamental thing in any relationship is respect, when you don’t receive it, simply say “no, thanks” and move on. Which is what I did.
Venturing into the unknown
Even though 2025 went by like a blur, there have been many good times. The biggest highlight has been our 10-year wedding anniversary and us moving into our new home. 2026 is starting with a lot of uncertainties and unclear plans, but I can feel it will be a better one. And my wish is to find myself again and enjoy what I do. Here’s to health, happiness, travel, discoveries, and professional achievements!